In the modern world, talking about sex openly seems to be a given. Even in casual conversation, the subject of sex seems to be a ubiquitous topic, ranging from discussing partners, preferences, body count, positions… you name it, we talk about it. Shows like “Sex and the City” took sexual education to a new level, showing women loving sex, being open to new sexual experiences and discussing their “goody drawers” – the infamous bed side table. This show was a wealth of knowledge, showing the world that women love sex as much as men a lot of the time and love their sex toys – especially when discussion of “the rabbit” came along (iykyk)!
That said, even 25 years after the show aired, there still seems to be a slight taboo, a twinge of shame, around the subject of masturbation and specifically the use of sex toys. With such a seemingly open society, why the hush hush surrounding the use of sex toys?
Sex toys bring an array of benefits to the user physically, mentally and, of course, sexually. Whether you’re an old pro at using them or just dipping your toe in the water, harnessing the benefits of sex toys can exponentially increase overall satisfaction in your life.
Physical Benefits: With all the stress in our modern world, is it any wonder we’re constantly searching for ways to relax and decrease our cortisol levels? Sexual pleasure releases the “feel good” hormones within your body, including dopamine and oxytocin (often referred to as the love hormone). The release of these hormones causes stress relief and relaxation – two things we’re in constant search of. Sexual pleasure also promotes improved sleep, yet another thing we are lacking in our everyday lives.
Mental Benefits: Exploring your body and determining what helps you achieve orgasm the best and in the most enjoyable way promotes sexual confidence and boosts your self-esteem. Feeling confident in your sexual life translates to feeling confident in all aspects of your life, boosting your mental health across the board.
Sexual Benefits: The benefits of using sex toys to enhance your sex life are boundless. Trying out a toy alone helps you learn what sensations you enjoy, or don’t, in a safe and pressure free environment. By trying different types of toys, you can drill down on what truly brings you pleasure and enjoyment. This, in turn, can help you communicate these likes/dislikes with a partner and even enhance your shared sexual experience by using toys together. Adult toys are an excellent addition to sexual experiences with a partner and should be viewed as such – an addition, rather than a replacement.
There are endless choices to be had with regards to sex toys which may be the best aspect of all – there’s truly something for everyone! Why sex toys? The better question is why not sex toys? Adult toys are a fantastic component to sexual wellness and there’s always an adventure to be had!